About Me

Rewind back when I had just got married and from the outside life looked good as I had a successful career, the home, travel and husband but on the inside felt something was missing and a yearning to become a mother. It just was not happening and my volatile marriage was going through highs & lows. At this point I started on my journey searching for more and came across a teacher of Intuitive Super conscious training. I’d learnt to connect with my inner wisdom and fell pregnant naturally despite doctors telling me that I cannot conceive naturally and would need medical interventions. The doctors immediately referred me to specialists and I was the only heavily pregnant women on the oncology ward with cancer patients going for regular appointments. However, I held the tension knowing intuitively my baby was fine. The pregnancy was a challenging journey but despite the doctors concerns I had a natural delivery and my miracle baby came into this world.

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As soon as my baby girl came into this world the cracks in my marriage became bigger and I was in a very vulnerable place feeling like a failure. The marriage was soul destroying and I was fearful to express myself. My intuition was telling me to let go of my husband and we separated when my daughter was 8 months old. This was a challenging time as culturally this was taboo and my ego felt like a failure however my intuition was telling me this relationship is a structure that no longer serves me and needs to change. I had followed my inner wisdom to conceive my baby and felt I had to honor and follow my intuition during this challenging phase going into the unknown again.

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We were separated for two years and I took this time to grieve myself for the marriage breaking down and I had to begin to love myself again and my body. During my separation I was in high stress mode and the cyst in my ovaries burst causing me to lose an ovary. I was trying so hard to hold it all together by going back to work early, maintain my career whilst being a single parent and running on auto pilot that I didn’t listen to my body and totally burnt out that my ovary burst. My mind and body had gone through a lot during this separation and I honored the sacrifice my body had made. I learnt over those two years to re-connect and love all of who I am and to get clarity on what I would love to create next. It was only after those 2 years of separation I had rebuilt myself and had clarity to start the divorce process and move towards my end result (vision) of creating a healthy co-parenting relationship for my daughter to thrive and be happy.

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​Of course, in the process I lost focus got angry and upset, was depressed, loads of crying, grieving and had massive anxiety. During a divorce emotion are high and these were my trigger points to re-center, take self-responsibility and remind myself of my goal and ‘end result’ to take the obvious next step by resolving conflict with integrity. It takes a lot of energy and focus to stick with this tension to resolve in favour of your end result. The key is tapping into your inner voice & wisdom to guide you. I had truly connected with my true instinctive self over those 2 years and I found my inner compass to guide me through this challenging time which held massive tension.

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Energetically holding the focus of your vision is key. Even post-divorce there is still more to process and it’s freely expressing myself with grace and integrity gave me true closure. This process truly mirrors going through the seven stages of grief or change and we owe it to ourselves to honour each stage, be with the pain, hear what the pain wants to say. Stillness and depression are part of this journey. Being kind to ourselves and accepting, loving yourself (all of who you are and would love to be) honouring your journey to then embark on creating a vision for what you’d love to create next. This is the process I went through and it was okay that I was NOT okay during this transition. Of course, mental health will suffer as you are processing a life changing moment that shakes and breaks the foundation of what you’d initially envisioned life to be. There is no going back as that structure is broken and it is time to rebuild the foundations for a new structure to evolve into a different version of you. This will obviously challenge us mentally and physically.

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For me connecting with my inner instinctive women opened up the doors for me to go through these 7 stages and honouring each phase both the highs and lows. There was a guiding light which was my vision of my daughter was my strength that kept me focused to be the best version of myself and transforming my relationship with her father to co-parent. The man I was fearful to express myself and eventually I found my voice to transition to effective co-parenting where I continue to hold the vision of us raising a happy and thriving daughter with two loving parents. We will always be connected as we have a child together and it’s this combined vision and constant choice to refocus back to my daughter and “letting go” of the past has enabled me to effectively co-parent. It’s been a rollercoaster journey but it had to happen and at my own pace. The key is to be gentle with yourself through this process of change and transformation at your own pace. Also take time to grieve, re-build and re-focus on what you’d love to create next as in my case it was more liberating than the alternative.

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During this time of transformation I had peaked in my career to a senior leadership role within the education sector and followed my intuition to branch out and create my own business aptly named “The Sweta Way”

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With my personal experience and intuitive training practice, I love coaching groups & individuals to show them how to access their inner wisdom, embody magic, to find their inner compass and share techniques I have learnt to hold this tension and get clarity to re-focus on their vision and achieve their true end results.